My head is spinning at your comment. I am so sorry for the chaos you are dealing with. My situation is the exact opposite, but sorrowful. My beloved daughter moved to sweden, got married and has no intention of moving back. My husband has left me after 43 years. I am no way, comparing our situations. I guess I am at the moment overwhelmed by how I got to be this old, with no husband and a kid I adored who I can count on my fingers the number of times I’ll see her before I die. Life sucks and then you die.

Oh, and I am not a lazy author. Sometimes I bring stuff up for which I have no answers. I hope things settle in your life. You’re a better mother than I.

martha